Greeting People


We meet and greet people every day, learn how to do it confidentily.

When you see someone that you know whether passing them in the hall, walking down the street, or in a store, make sure to acknowledge them every time.

A good method for greeting people is to say “Hi” (or whatever greeting is comfortable for you), include the other person’s name, and speak in an upbeat tone of voice. Saying someone’s name in an upbeat tone when greeting people not only makes the other person feel comfortable, but it also gives YOU a little boost to help you become more relaxed and confident.

Suggestions for Greeting People:


Be The First To Say “Hi”
We all have been in situations where we pass by someone we know without saying “Hi”.  They, in turn, do not say “Hi” to you.  Once this happens one or two times, it becomes harder for one of you to say “Hi” and acknowledge the other person.  We may start to feel as though they are “snobs” because they didn’t say “Hi” when, in fact, they may feel the same way about you!  You can break this uncomfortable pattern by being a leader and saying “Hi” first.  You will be viewed as friendly and secure in yourself by making a positive effort to greet the other person, even if they do not acknowledge you.


Always Use People’s Names When Saying “Hi”
Instead of just saying “Hi”, say “Hi Sam” or “Hi Jamie”.   People feel better when you use their name.  If a person is not a close friend of yours and you do not address them by their name, they begin to think you do not know their name.  If you do, use it.  If you don’t, ask them, repeat it, and then remember it for the next time. Doesn’t it feel much friendlier when someone includes your name when they say “Hi”?


Firm Handshake
When greeting people it is important to extend a hand. Grip their hand firmly (without hurting them).  A weak handshake is a sign of someone who is not confident.  A firm handshake creates an instant bond with someone.  Make the person you are shaking hands with feels your personality and confidence.  Show them with a firm handshake that you are sincere, warm, and pleased to see them.


Stand Tall
Your body language says a lot about your confidence.  When greeting people it is important to “STAND TALL”.  You do this by keeping your head up, shoulders back, and your body upright. This posture shows the other person that you are confident in yourself.  It also helps you to feel better about yourself.  Right now pull your shoulders back, hold your head up, and your body upright.  Doesn’t this simple movement help you instantly feel more confident then if you were slouched over?

 

When greeting people give them a friendly “Hello” and include their name.  Be confident, stand tall, and shake their hand firmly.